During a conversation at Blissdom with a newer friend, I said some less than positive things about myself (I believe it was my double chin, I was criticizing at the moment). When the new friend frowned at my self flagellation, a close friend who has known me for years simply said “That’s what she does.”
It was one of those moments that struck me.
Because it is true.
I don’t want to be that girl. And I’m working on it. I can’t promise that I can change just because I want to change, but I can work on it. And that’s something.